If you’ve spent too many hours allowing the blank page to conquer you, if you continuously doubt every word that you write down, if you’re tempted to hit delete every time you write a new blog post – you’re not alone and help is at hand.
If you’ve ever wondered if the things you that you struggle with are normal or if it feels like you’re the only one stuck in fear, you can stop stressing. Here are the 3 most common times that you will want to give up (and you’re not alone because EVERYONE goes through this at some point whether they are just starting out or have a few best sellers to their name). The trick is to write on regardless and that’s where we come in.
1. The Beginning – You want to start but you don’t know how. Fear has gripped you in the form of procrastination, excuses, lack of time, energy, motivation or inspiration. You’re afraid that you don’t have what it takes to write. You’re afraid that you don’t have anything original to say or that you lack the right grammar, spelling or gumption to write anything at all. You worry that your words won’t be of interest to anyone and that you’re wasting your time. Maybe you find the courage to start but because that first sentence or paragraph isn’t perfect, you keep starting over and over and over again and never really get anywhere. This can be torture as you really want to begin but don’t know how to get past this first big creative block. Your inner critic is on full blast in your mind and your writing dream feels like it’s never going to happen.
2. The Middle – Yay! You’ve managed to write something but you’re still not satisfied. You either doubted yourself the whole time or the process was going well until suddenly everything seemed to fall apart. What the hell went wrong? Maybe you got distracted and lost your writing routine. Maybe you felt that you needed some feedback from a friend or family member and they didn’t give you what you were looking for ( or worse still, they criticized you – eeeek!) Whatever the case may be, you’ve lost your enthusiasm and so you take a ‘break’ from writing. The break goes from days, to weeks, to months even years. You have various note books or unfinished stories lying around waiting for you to have your break through moment but it just never seems to happen. You really thought you could do better than this.
3. The End – Wooohooo! You finished your rough draft at last! Then you start to read through what you have written and you hate every.single.word. You want to take the next step and start editing so that you can enter a writing competition or publish it but due to the fact that you don’t like what you’ve written, you stay stuck and frustrated.
Fear and doubt are the main causes of writer’s block or getting stuck creatively. The bad news is that fear or your inner critic will try and stop you at every stage of your writing process. The good news is that this is normal and this happens to everyone – it’s not just you! There’s nothing wrong with you and there are various things you can do to deal with your fears and doubts in an empowering, supportive and creative way. You’re not lazy, untalented or stupid. All you need is someone to help you create a writing routine that works for you and guides you on your creative journey back to self.
If you want to write this Winter but don’t know how to start, continue or finish then join us for our introductory course, Writing Scared which starts next week, Wednesday June 3rd in Kenilworth, Cape Town. There are only THREE places left so if you want to claim your spot, get in touch with us before Tuesday 2nd June for booking details. We’ll even have a roaring fire going to keep you warm as you begin to Write On!
” I am a writer. Four words I never thought I would say. Doing Writing Scared helped me realise that I am not only able to say those words but to believe them and more importantly write them! Doing this course was like kicking a massive rock over and finding something that has always been there, just there, hiding in the comfortable dooming weight of the rock. I found something there. I found my voice. I found my story. Thank you Write On! ” – Nadezna Pieters, Johannesburg
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Earlier this week, Write On! founder Amy Kaye was interviewed by Pippa Hudson of 567 CapeTalk radio to talk about the importance of keeping a diary or journal. If you missed the interview, you can listen to the podcast here: https://soundcloud.com/primediabroadcasting/people-who-keep-diaries-are-generally-much-happier If you want to skip the intro, start the podcast from 2:38 in.
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